In a world so great and large a DIVA explores so little

There is so much in this world that I have not touched yet. My biggest goal perhaps is to tour Japan, it’s been a passion for some time now and the main character in my book leaves her safe space to live in Japan (so there’s my inspiration!)

Besides the long term explorations; I yearn to fully explore New York City. I mean we (New Yorkers) seriously do not appreciate the space we occupy, from the theater district to good old Central Park. Last night I was invited to a private reception at Doyle New York by the President of my organization; this reception would feature modern and contemporary furniture, art and design. I must admit I was never one to enjoy that sort of art per se and I gather it’s because I was never exposed to it so I planned on getting the most out of this event.

I walked around for a bit and viewed the pieces of costume jewelry by socialite Brigid Berlin and dreamed of what could fit on my arm when this very attractive woman asked me if I wanted to try it on. I thought why yes I would but I am not one for giving things back LOL so I kindly rejected. The DIVA♥♥♥ in me cannot stomach WINDOW SHOPPING!

So I moved on to the guacamole treats they had set out for us! I was in sheer heaven. It was near the treats I noticed one of the most amazing drawings I had ever seen… An original drawing by Yves St. Laurent himself! … A coat he had sketched for a friend and it was going for auction at a price of $800! I could only dream… Read previous posts (I am Broke!)

Moving forward I had to get my drunken DIVA♥♥♥ on and headed straight to the champagne table where they offered Pellegrino or white wine hmm…

Are you wondering what I selected? NO WAY

You didn’t have to wonder …

So after 2 glasses of wine I pepper seeded all the way over to girlfriend Susan who was looking at this Japanese vase that resembled test tubes. We talked about what we liked and dislike about the collections and even admired Ms. Roz Abrams who was in attendance (her shoes were FIERCE!)

The night soon ended with the DIVA♥♥♥ having new perspective of the art world and wanting to visit more exhibits. Come to think of it I have a friend who hosts an Albanian Art exhibit in Midtown! I must give him a call!

What are some places you have visited in New York City that a DIVA♥♥♥ may not be aware of? Come on help a DIVA out ….I am in a positive mood today  LOL

Later

Z.

You had the audacity part 2!!!

Ok ladies I had to add on to this blog because after I told a few male friends of mines about what I said to that poor man, they had their say!

My boy had asked me what was good with my blog and I said it was going well, I met some knew DIVA's and all but then I remembered the latest blog I wrote and how he would get a KICK out of it!

He responded with the funniest face I had ever seen. Like he couldn't believe I said that to that guy. He said that we are messing dudes self esteem up????? HUH?????

I was like "How the hell are we doing that?" he said could you imagine stepping up to someone and saying "Hey sweetheart what's your name?" and she bug out on you! I told him for the record I would not step to anyone with a tight grill on their face LOOKING LIKE THEY DON'T WANT TO BE BOTHERED!!!! That is the face I had on the MEAN MUG! Wouldn't that prevent anybody from approaching you? Was I bugging? My girls confirmed that I wasn't. Its just that dudes are stupid sometimes and can't or rather won't take "oh no thanks" for an answer... right?

So he couldn't control his laughter because he was like could you imagine 8 dudes on the corner chilling and a lady past by and looks them dead in the face and says "You no good fat ugly losers!" and just keeps walking! I had to object because that was not what I did all I said was "You have the audacity to speak to me?" THAT'S ALL!

But he was amazed...

Go figure .... MEN!

A DIVA has had it up to HERE with their logic's of things

Girl please

Later

Z.

You had the Audacity to speak to me???

Ok, the past few post have been nice cute little things that you should all enjoy but the DIVASAURUS is back... psychotic flip out time...

I am getting really sick and tired of these men who think they can just APPROACH me! Like what the hell is going on? At what point did you think it was ok to say something to me?

My name is so true to my life. I am a diva A HUGE one at that. The way I walk the way I stand the way I hold my hand out like someone should kiss it SAYS IT ALL. So much so that others are intimidated to speak. COOL! :-)
But BUT! for some strange VERY strange reason some men bypassed the hand to come and talk to me.

Yes, the other day I was standing waiting for a friend when this toothless man passed by and said "Hello!" I ignored him; what else was I to say? Being so bold he approached me again! So I rolled my eyes and turned my head to address him. Okay if you know me you know that what I said next was either extremely funny or hurtful LOL

"Excuse me? Why did you think it was okay to address me? Do I look available? Do I look like I need conversation from someone like you?" and he stood there SHOCKED that I had just asked him those questions, but should he have really be surprised? Do I really look approachable? LOL

That really irked me because I damn sure don't want to look approachable to these losers...

So how would you have responded? And don't give the DIVA that BS about how you would have shut him down nicely... because that DOES NOT WORK and neither does the I HAVE A MAN approach because they just come back with more questions!

Love ya

Z.

10 Questions to Ask Strangers who Friend Request You

Ok, so in a world filled with unknown people and a social networking community who embraces them what do you do when you receive an unknown friend request? Perhaps this person is following you on Twitter or seen your comments on a mutual friends page. That being said they took the liberty to "friend request" you and its cool at times but when it becomes overwhelming what should you do?

I say you should start asking a few questions and either they will kindly answer or just automatically delete you out of sheer embarrassment!

But here are a few questions I think you should ask. Worse come to worse; you had fun with a stranger and even got a few laughs...

1) Who are you? I mean plain and simple who the hell are you? Should I know you?

2) Where did you see my profile at? Because most of the times if you are an avid Twitter like I am it is possible that you have over 300 followers and not know any of them. So they may feel a little connection and want to extend an invitation on FaceBook or MySpace.

3) Your not going to flood my Myspace with inappropiate comments are you? I mean let us be for real; if you friend request me and I happen to accept but I really don't know you... Why would you flood my comment box with "Hey Sexy" messages???

4) Did you do a Google search on me after your request? I mean HEY I do it! LMAO

5) Do you like my picures? If you have the audacity to friend request someone that you don't know you should at least comment on their pics/profile, don't you think?

6) Do you mind putting me on you top? Come on, they requested YOU so the least they can give back for full access to your personal life is a TOP SLOT!

7) Your not a spy... Are you? Hey you never know lol. Your EX could have sent his/her friend your way to get info. I had a few crazies in my day! Girl let me tell you LOL

8) Since you want to BEfriend me have you looked at my _________ (insert MySpace, FaceBook, Twitter) accounts? If they want to be all in your business and you accept one you should forward them all!

9) Tell me the truth... On a scale from 1 to 10 how do you rate my profile pic? Get feedback from those who don't matter. Maybe they will tell you something your bestie wouldn't!

And the # 10 question to ask unknown friend request!!!!!!!!!!

10) Did I really waste all this time asking YOU questions???

by the way if you are NOT connected to me here are my links

Love you guys/gals

Z.

http://twitter.com/zanade

www.myspace.com/zanade

http://Writing.Com/authors/zanade

http://twhpnetwork.ning.com/profile­/Zanade

http://www.linkedin.com/in/zanademann

asicollect.blogspot.com

10 Ways to Successfully Date a Gemini

1) Don't attempt to impress her with boring pick up lines♥ Taking this route will only make her ignore you. Gemini's are creative by nature and they live for the unusual. Find something unique to say to your chosen Gem lady and you will at least get her attention and possibly a business card!

2) Adapt to an extravert lifestyle♥ Gemini's are very social so prepare to go any and everywhere she wants to go or introduce her to new places. Do not try to tie her down because it will only make things bad on your part in the long run. Anything with a lot going on at one time is sure to please your Gem lover.

3) Listen to your Gemini talk♥ Gemini women love to engage in all sorts of conversation and they are the conversationalist of all the astrological signs. So give her plenty of time to run her mouth and she will instantly fall head over heels for you. ENOUGH SAID. Bonus tip… say things like "Really?", "How did you manage to do that?" and "Do you blog?"

www.justmezanade.blogspot.com

4) Don't forget to compliment her♥ Most Gemini's love or rather LIVE for compliments and if none are present she may go insane and start tossing objects around the room (True Story!)

5) Don't over compliment her♥ A true Gem can automatically detect when someone is not being sincere and your bag of compliments can easily turn into bullshit; going through one ear and out the other. So don't be phony and if you have to be at least find something she is into and compliment her; then it would sound sincere.

6) Have something interesting going on in your life♥ Gemini's wear different hats and like to be actively involved in activities therefore she expects you to be just as involved. Now that is not saying you have to do everything she wants to do its just saying have a life outside of your 9 to 5! A true Gemini doesn't want a mediocre man.

7) Remember that Gemini's are always mentally active♥ So it may seem as if your Gem is not paying you any attention and at times she probably isn't but not on purpose. Gemini's mind can go from one topic to another instantly, so you may be enjoying a romantic dinner and she may be thinking of mowing the lawn (lol) but don't be offended because she can bring it back JUST LIKE THAT!

8) Take advantage of her wild side♥ Gems are great lovers and they love to please everyone especially their men. Don't be intimidated if your Gem wants to try something new; just sit back and enjoy the ride!

9) Forget trying to make her jealous♥ Many Gemini's don't care if you try to make them jealous by being with the next woman and if you tempt her enough she will get back at you tenfold by doing a little flirting of her own. Gemini's are master flirters and they are very witty so many people attract to them; so ultimately you will lose at that game!

10) Pamper her♥ Gemini's love attention and gifts, they love to feel appreciated. Flowers and candy are hardly enough; try things like exotic trips or a pretty bag to make her day. Or give her a spa gift certificate and let her live in bliss!


Gemini's are fun loving and irresistible and if you are lucky to get one; treat her well and let her talk and you will do just fine!

♥♥♥

Some notable Gemini Women

Angelina Jolie

Heidi Klum

Anna Kournikova

And me Zanade!

Political DIVA!

Hello DIVA's and men readers (Iknow your out there lol)

I wanted to make this post more special then any other post. Divas have this bad rap basically saying divas don't like other divas and this is totally not true and I will prov this tonight!

I had so much fun at The White House Project this weekend and if you are not sure what I am talking about please log onto www.myspace.com/pinkpolkadot_org and check out our latest blog!

Besides that I want to express that many woman can gather and support each other!

AND WHEN YOU ADD WOMEN YOU DO TRULY CHANGE EVERYTHING!

Welcome to the Diva's Salon

Today I am serving up something different. Is that possible for me? I don't know but here we go!

I have so many random thoughts running through my head.

1) I must address some of the MySpace pages I have been seeing. Is there a need to have your whole damn fam on your profile? Like as soon as you kick out another kid you got pics posted all throughout the MySpace community! Like from the womb to the scanner! Its ridiculous. What happened to censorship? Keeping the kids safe???
by the way my personal page is www.myspace.com/zanade no worries there are no nude flicks or umbilical cords LMAO!!!

Speaking of nude pics why does every think they are all of a sudden Ms. Independent? Like Neyo please stop gassing these chicks up it's KILLING me! Either that or they "About da Business!" come on people!

2) Since you brought up the topic of children. Why are all these girls getting knocked up without planning for the future? I mean yes at 3 months Jordan's are not expensive but lets see you kick out $200 10 years from now!

That brings me to a time in my life where people would make fun of my clothes because I didn't wear Jordan's or expensive clothes but I was smart I thought of the long term effects of my purchases. I saved and most of the so called divas (lowercase ON PURPOSE) have nothing and they stay in the $10 store... hmm maybe I should invite them to my blog!

But the bigger picture is ... how are we raising our children? How can young teens raise these kids with no support? Where is their future heading? Can someone please tell them that many of the social services made readily available will be extinct pretty soon!

3) How freaking long does my stylist expect me to sit under this dryer? I really hate getting my hair done. I don't want to stare at weaves and open perm boxes. I want to get my set and go home. No mami no need to wrap I want to leave asap!

4) Assistants when will they ever learn?

5) Am I wrong for being independent and taking care of myself but when a man comes along I expect him to provide for me? Like seriously we are supposed to be taking care of each other right? GOOD

Victoria's Secret cost $$$$

6) Yes I am ADDICTED to nail polish! Seems like every person I say that to looks at me weird.

7) Some blogs I read inspire me and others shouldn't be posted.

8) I love feedback

9) Why did they play my man Stan O'neal? He was the man!!! Now the finance world is lacking and they blame the black man for shame :-(

I love the finance world in its good and bad times... I was studying for my MBA then left it to be a complaining blogging DIVA!

10) Life is short .... enjoy life .... buy what you will.... marry the best.... drive the flyest... Say w/e you likeeeeeee

Later

Z.